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The battle between desirous to be social vs. consolation in being alone, wanting to slot in vs. misanthropy; that age the place you resolve when you ought to go exterior and do what your friends are doing or keep in and work on an introspective, time-consuming craft.

My mother and father had a pair mates however not many, or they stored them at bay. A pool desk in the home meant occasional small gatherings in our dwelling, not having to fret about how a lot they drank. But these had been few and much between. I might get up and complain concerning the noise, but in the end I adopted their tendency towards staying in. I say “tendency” as a result of there was nonetheless that battle. I spent plenty of time in my room drawing, writing lyrics, determining music. Of course I went via puberty and obtained interested in ladies and events and what older children had been doing. I’d stick my foot into that world solely to see lack of management, fist fights, hazard. I went again into my room.

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poem by Trevor Dunn circa 1985

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The Garage

I drank my dad’s final Coors Light whereas he was within the hospital and we thought he could be coming dwelling. I used to be out within the storage cleansing up, vacuuming sawdust, accumulating tape measures, placing screw drivers of their allotted drawers. I may simply hear him saying, “Where the hell is everything?!” upon his return. I used to be planning on changing the beer and I used to be planning on listening to him say that.

The storage was by no means used for its supposed objective, except you contemplate his drag racing years when it was primarily an auto physique store. The household automobiles sat within the driveway or on the curb. Once I used to be born the treachery of high-speed racing was left apart, changed by desk saws, jig saws, lathes, and drills. As a teenager I used to be fascinated. Occasionally I used to be granted permission to “monkey around” with a field of bolts and galvanized elbow joints. Dad taught me tips on how to correctly hit a nail on the top and tips on how to maintain a blade. So many manly instruments. Bicycles parked subsequent to the store vac. I used to be additionally fascinated, together with my college mates, with the photographs on the wall: largely ‘50s and ’60s centerfolds tacked excessive above all the intense gear. Very tame erotica, however every with a persona I conjured prepubescently and past. This was the house the place I might hear my dad cursing as he labored. “Goddamnit.” “Sonofabitch.” Sacred phrases I wasn’t allowed to say. The house the place I used to be disciplined a number of occasions. My first canine slept and ultimately died on the market, of their padded home underneath a warmth lamp. The storage was the place you went when you needed to speak to dad, to ask for cash or permission; mother’s realm was the kitchen, and each had orders to remain out of the opposite’s house.

Word has it that my mother put up with so much. I by no means actually considered her having to “put up” with a wall filled with nudie footage — not till she was taking them down just a few days after dad handed. “Mom, what the hell are you doing?” I politely queried, “That’s part of my youth!” She scoffed, “These old things? The paper is just crumbling.” And it was. That storage was a fireplace hazard, a lot of paint thinner, oil, rags, wooden chips. He freaked out when he discovered a spent match in there as soon as, made a cardboard signal with the match glued to it that mentioned one thing about corporal punishment if he ever discovered one other. The place was an inch-thick in sawdust — down within the equipment, up on the florescent lights, coating the jerry-rigged electrical shops — to not point out fifty-year-old, flammable nudie footage.

I made a decision to allow them to go. This is mother’s home now, her storage: she will get to resolve what she needs to do, how she needs to deal. “I told these bitches they were gonna go someday,” she hissed, “and they’re gonna go!”

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circa 1965

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2020

The Bench

Meditation wasn’t one thing I ever thought of rising up. I’m certain it should have been round, what with all of the bare hippies I might see on the river, the mushroom journeys I’d hear about, the domestically made jewellery and the tofu. Living on the blue-collar facet of the tracks meant leanings towards different issues: chopping firewood, basic rock in smoky bars, meat and potatoes, vodka, automobile races, energy instruments. My dad constructed issues together with his palms, not in contrast to some hippies. There was artwork in his thoughts, however I believe he would roll his eyes on the concept of trying to consider nothing. I may very well be flawed about that.

We had a jacuzzi within the yard for about ten years. As an adolescent, many nights had been spent underneath the chilly, clear sky, soaking alone, staring up on the constellations whereas considering the long run and time and the that means of life. This was some form of meditation. Decisions had been made in that warmth. Reflection. Analysis of issues and fears in a effervescent cauldron, surrounded by the aroma of redwoods and dewy Douglass fir. Smoke from a neighbor’s fire. At some level the factor grew to become a problem and my mother and father ripped it out. Dad constructed a partition for the wooden pile and a suspended bench; mother hung a wind chime and planted a tree within the new grime octagon the place the bathtub had been.

I’m certain neither of them ever imagined, nor did I, that some three many years later, after a tumultuous starting to the 12 months, I might retrieve my meditation spot on that East-facing bench. There’s a chicken bathtub, a twenty-year-old amaryllis, robins and crows within the morning, the quiet drone of small-town visitors off within the distance. The similar open sky beckoning my inquiries. Loads has modified and little has modified.


Mom’s Wind Chime

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The Stump

Probably not too far off the mark to imagine that any adolescent boy in an impoverished, culturally challenged, and remoted small city may ultimately flip to trespassing, vandalism, and/or pyromania. Homemade “bombs” had been a factor. Some child in junior excessive died from a bit of shrapnel within the throat. My fatherless buddy Jack and I lit a number of issues on fireplace: his storage flooring, a forest grove, plastic toys on the roof of the elementary college. I used to be all the time the primary to volunteer to strike the match for the hearth.

There is hallowed floor behind my mother and father’ home: a half acre of open discipline, dwelling to an deserted nicely and what we merely referred to as “the stump,” a six-foot gutted out tree trunk of some unknown species standing alone, inviting us to climb up into its throne. The discipline was sufficiently big for my older brother to design a baseball diamond the place we’d play league video games with a mishmash of neighborhood children. The nicely was proper round pitcher’s mound and the stump was method out in left discipline, not removed from the yard fence my dad constructed utilizing scraps from the lumber mill the place he labored. By the tip of spring the hay would have grown above our heads, good for hiding. And then that superb day would arrive when somebody would mow the sphere. We anticipated this as we did the tip of the varsity 12 months; instantly we might hop the fence and begin constructing mounds of hay on the base of the stump. A once-in-a-season occasion. Four-foot drop to the pit. My hay fever went wild. The leap was price it.

One day I climbed up into the throne with a field of matches, lit a number of, snubbed them out within the peat moss the place I sat. Went about my day. A couple of hours later the neighborhood was in a ruckus, outdated people hopping their fences with buckets of water to douse the fireplace that had begun to threaten us all. I stored my mouth shut till about twenty years later once I confessed over Thanksgiving dinner. I took the berating with aplomb, assured within the statute of limitations. A couple of years later the stump birthed blackberry bushes which had been harvested for pie: absolved.

This discipline is a sole survivor; earlier adjoining fields, horse pastures, and apple timber have fallen. I all the time detested this growth. I wrote a highschool paper about being scowled at by certainly one of these new neighbors, how I reveled in the truth that I used to piss underneath an apple tree the place his entrance porch now stood.

Recently, after greater than sixty years’ possession of that consecrated discipline, the owner handed and the tractors moved in. These could be the final images ever taken of the vine-covered stump.

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the stump

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Old Town, Eureka 1991, half 1

Old Town, Eureka 1991, half 2

The Bar

At seventeen my skilled profession started once I joined a grizzled bar band and was thrown right into a demographic beforehand unknown. Because of my age I all the time needed to sit within the kitchen between units or go exterior, the place I might do homework in my automobile. The first New Year’s Eve gig revealed a crowd of adults, with nothing higher to do, at their worst: loud rednecks, cigarette smoke, belligerence, lasciviousness, disappointment. I recalled my poem about my highschool friends however one way or the other this was the actual deal. Lots of fodder for my sociology papers and fulfilling my need to show observations into lyrics. Occasionally I might take a Walkman right down to the gig to report not the music however the interactions of grownup inebriates who should have discovered my sober baby-face an innocuous curiosity.

Toward my ultimate days in school the decision to maneuver to the large metropolis began to drown out the din of smokey saloons. My final months in Humboldt I used to be hardly taking part in on the town in any respect, as a substitute spending increasingly time within the Bay Area. But when dwelling, in any case my mates had moved away and I used to be a newly unemployed school graduate, I might experience my bicycle downtown with my Walkman. There was now not something for me to do on this city apart from work in my room or examine the village nightlife I used to be so near leaving. It didn’t matter that I used to be lastly sufficiently old to enter the bars; I had no cause to. I’d stand exterior, engrossed within the vigorous small-town pastimes of creating up issues, getting misplaced, and losing away. Inevitably somebody would begin a dialog or ask for a cigarette. There’d be a battle or a gaggle of over-sized vans. If the freight prepare was passing via I would run just a few blocks to hop it throughout city or on the very least report its ominous, metallic noise. Plenty of noise for such slightly city.

Before 2 a.m., when issues actually obtained out-of-hand and visitors went drunkenly haywire, I’d head again to my mother and father’ home. The additional I obtained from downtown the extra barren the streets grew to become till it was simply me and the wind, a creaking road signal, a barking canine, a shadowy determine in his alleyway. Dad didn’t get dwelling from his evening shift till 4 and mother was already asleep, so I had a pair hours to myself once more. Perhaps some Kung-Fu theater on tv, or a couple of minutes within the sizzling tub. More possible, I’d scrawl down some ideas in my room, questioning the place all these individuals, myself included, had been going to finish up.

Harris & E

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evening view from my mother and father’ home

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